During standard sex, the brain’s prefrontal cortex (the planning center) is usually running in the background: Am I doing this right? Did I lock the door? How long has this been going on?
The art of mind-blowing sex isn't about being a better lover. It's about being a more present human. Put down the Kama Sutra. Pick up your breath. Look into your partner's eyes. And for the love of the divine, slow. Down. Tantra - The Art of Mind-Blowing Sex
After activity ceases (orgasm may or may not have happened), do not jump up to clean up. Do not reach for your phone. Stay connected. The giver places a hand on the receiver's heart; the receiver places a hand on the giver's lower belly. Breathe together. Witness the afterglow. During standard sex, the brain’s prefrontal cortex (the