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In the Orthodox Church, we have a sacrament of repentance, also known as confession. This sacrament provides us with a means of seeking forgiveness for our sins and of reconciling with God. As parents, we must encourage our children to participate in this sacrament, to seek forgiveness for their sins, and to learn from their mistakes.
The Psalmist declares, “Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord” (Psalm 127:3). The Orthodox ethos begins by recognizing that children belong to God. Parents are stewards, not owners. This shifts the goal from molding a child in our own image to helping them discover the unique image of God they were created to become. In the Orthodox Church, we have a sacrament
The Church provides us with a rich tradition of spiritual guidance and wisdom. The Church Fathers and Mothers have written extensively on the topic of childrearing, offering practical advice and spiritual guidance. Through the Church, we can learn about the importance of repentance, forgiveness, and self-control. The Psalmist declares, “Behold, children are a heritage
: Children are not here to make parents proud or their lives peaceful; they are here for parents to help them grow toward God, regardless of their current behavior. The Role of the Parent: Modeling and Repentance This shifts the goal from molding a child
The ultimate paradox of Orthodox childrearing is that you parent toward the Kingdom by learning to let go. Your child is not your possession; they belong to God.
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