We often use our word to spread emotional poison. Gossip, rumors, and harsh criticism are forms of black magic. When we gossip, we are using our word to undermine someone else’s reality. Ruiz warns that gossip is the worst form of black magic because it spreads fear and separation.
. When we take things personally, we become "trapped" by the opinions of others, leading to needless suffering. Cultivating immunity to both praise and criticism allows for greater emotional resilience don miguel ruiz the four agreements
Children make mistakes. A parent who takes a spilled glass of milk personally ("You did this to annoy me!") creates a fearful environment. A parent who practices the agreements cleans up the mess without drama, teaches impeccability (telling the truth about the spill), and allows the child to do their best. We often use our word to spread emotional poison