If you’ve ever felt a conversation go stale or struggled to move a woman from polite interest to genuine intrigue, you’ve likely been outside the vortex. What is the Conversation Vortex?
The toll of maintaining a "vortex" persona on both the practitioner and the participants. 5. Conclusion Conversation Vortex -redpillbay-
Here is the secret sauce of the technique. After you have them laughing or intrigued, stop. Go silent for 2 seconds. Look at them with slight amusement. Say: "Hmm. I actually thought you were going to be boring, but you’re keeping up." This is a qualifier . You are now judging them, not the other way around. Their brain releases dopamine seeking your approval. They are inside the vortex. If you’ve ever felt a conversation go stale
When they respond, do not answer with facts. Answer with stories interrupted by mysterious details. Go silent for 2 seconds
Analysis of the community's claim that these tools are for "self-improvement" versus external critiques regarding their use in deceptive social dynamics.
Man: (Slow approach, leans slightly on counter) "You have the look of someone who’s hiding from the guy in the ugly sweater." Woman: (Laughs) "Oh my god, is it that obvious?" Man: "Don’t worry, I’m a professional escape artist. I once ditched a wedding in under 2 minutes." Woman: "No way. How?" Man: (Pauses, takes a sip) "That’s a secret I only trade for a funny story about the host. You first." Woman invests effort. She tells a story. He teases her. She asks him questions. He pulls back. She leans in.
Don’t ask "Where are you from?" followed by "What do you do for work?"